"Can A Little Child Like Me" page 9 in Children's Songbook
or "In Humility, Our Savior" #172 in Hymns of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
D&C 59:7 "Thou shalt thank the Lord thy God in all things"
or James 4:10 " Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up."
Chapter Books to Read-a-Loud (choose one or two):
Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin
Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery
The Black Pearl by Scott O'Dell
King of the Golden River by John Ruskin
Sarah Plain and Tall by Patricia MacLachlan
Week 1- Pride
Jesus Washes the Feet of the Apostles
Read John 13
Help children understand that Jesus was the Son of God, the greatest person to ever live on the earth, but that he was humble enough to do the job that a servant would normally do. He wanted us to understand that God measures greatness, not by the amount of money or power you have, but by how willing you are to serve and love others. When we humble ourselves and serve and love those around us we become like Christ and become great in the eyes of God.
Questions to talk about:
Why did Jesus wash the feet of his apostles?
Why didn't Peter want his feet washed?
Would you have let Jesus wash your feet?
Who can you show love and service to?
How are you going to love and serve them?
Pride Comes Before a Fall
Begin by explaining that being proud is thinking that you are more important or more valuable than others. Prideful people are also known for walking around with their “noses in the air.” They think so much of themselves that they look down on others and can't see other people's needs or feelings.
Set up a trip line in the room, make it low to the ground (about ankle height). This can be done by tying a string between two chairs. Take turns having the children say proud statements, like "I am the most beautiful person in the room", or "I am the best at playing basketball, no one else is as good as me".Have the kids practice walking around with their noses in the air when they say these things. It helps if you demonstrate first and then encourage the children to come up with their own proud statements. As they say their proud statement have them approach the string, and since their nose is in the air, have them trip over the line ( you may want to put pillows on the other side). Reinforce to the children that proud people are so focused on themselves that they can't see the dangers ahead of them. You can also have them take turns saying humble phrases like, "I feel really pretty today, and you look pretty today too" or, "Wow, I got that shot, thanks for helping me get it." When they say humble phrases have them look around the room and avoid the trip line.
This activity can also be done using stuffed animals or dolls. Just make the trip line about knee height for the stuffed animals you are using.
Another variation is to put glasses covered with dark paper or a blindfold on the child and have them walk and try not to trip. You can explain that pride makes you blind but when we are humble we can see the needs of others and what God wants us to do.
Power Struggle (from Kids of Integrity)
To play the game Power Struggle, one person begins by thinking of a small and insignificant animal, like a flea or an ant. The name of this creature is then inserted into the following rhyme:
Person one: There once was a flea who spoke right out loud,
“I’m so big! I’m so big! I’m as big as that cloud!”
Others respond: “Hey, little buddy,” said God with a wink,
“You’re really not quite as big as you think!
I hate to disappoint you, but I have a strong hunch,
There are quite a few others who could eat you for lunch!
After everyone else replies with God’s lines, the next person thinks up an animal slightly larger than the previous one. For example, the flea could be followed by a spider. The game continues until the creatures named are as large as dinosaurs.
You can use puppets, stuffed animals or pictures as a visual for each of the animals/creatures you name.
When the game is finished, take a minute to point out that God is bigger and more powerful than all of the creatures named.
Books to Read
The Tower: A Story of Humility by Richard Paul Evans
Yertle the Turtle and other stories by Dr. Seuss
The Rainbow Fish by Marcus Pfister
Mufaros Beautiful Daughters: An African Tale by John Steptoe
Petunia by Roger Duvoisin
Why Noah Chose the Dove by Isaac Bashevis Singer
Week 2- Gratitude
Jesus Heals the Ten Lepers
Read Luke 17:11-19
The lepers were unable to help themselves and when they asked Jesus for help He had compassion on them. He told them to go and show themselves to the priest and then they would be healed. All ten lepers went to the priest and afterwards they were all healed. To say thank you the lepers would have had to go back and find Jesus and express their gratitude. Out of all ten lepers only one leper was willing to go to the effort to find Jesus again and thank him. Stress to the children that sometimes showing gratitude is not easy, but that when we do we gain more blessings from God, just like the leper who came back did.
Questions to Talk About:
Why did only one leper go back and say thank you?
How do you think this made Jesus feel?
How do you think the leper felt after he said thank you?
Have you ever forgotten to say thank you to someone after they did something nice for you?
How did that make you feel?
What can you do to help you remember to say thank you?
Count Your Blessings
Help children "see" their blessings. There are several different ways to do this. You can:
- Keep a gratitude Jar. Have children write things they are grateful for on slips of paper and have them put them in a mason jar (or another large type of jar). Keep it out all month (or all year) and have them add things they are thankful for. Open it up and read the slips occasionally as a reminder. It is also fun to spend time decorating the outside of the jar with things the kids are grateful for.
- Make a long list of everything that you are grateful for. You could use a cash register roll and see who can make the longest list. Keep it up all month and have the children add to it so that it grows and grows. This is also a fun idea to do on Thanksgiving, and every year see if you can get your list longer than last year's list. Children can draw pictures if they are too young to write.
- Make a gratitude wall or gratitude tree. At every meal have a pens and a pile of sticky-notes available on the table. Before eating have every member of the family write (or draw) at least one thing they are grateful for on a sticky-note. Stick the notes on a wall or create a "gratitude tree" somewhere in your house where you can stick or hang the notes. When we did this we used the sliding doors in our dining room. Our goal was to have the whole door covered by the end of the month and we did! Well, at least the top half that the baby couldn't reach and pull off.
|Some of the notes my two-year-old drew|
There are many people who perform thankless jobs that make your child's life easier. This could be a teacher, janitor, librarian or someone who organizes a community event. Start by helping your child identify these selfless people in his life. Next, provide materials for your child to create thank you cards to give to these people. Helping your child see how he benefits from others humility, can help him become more humble too.
The Present Game
Give your children each a gift bag and have them run around the house to find one ‘gift’ to give each other. They don't have to be real gifts, just objects, toys, books, clothes or something that they think the other person might like. Remind them that it should be something that they own and that they won't mind if they don't get back. When everyone has found a gift to give take a moment and talk about the correct way to give and receive gifts. Explain that when they open each other’s presents they must 1) thank the person and 2) say something nice about the gift... even if it is something silly or something that they don't like. It may help if you model for the kids by opening a gift first yourself and showing them how to respond gratefully. Kids usually love this game, so play it until they loose interest.
Books to Read
The Lion and the Mouse by Aseops Fable
It Could Always Be Worse by Margot Zemach
The Old Woman Who Lived in a Vinegar Bottle by Margaret Read MacDonald
Bear Says Thanks by Karma Wilson
Rabbit's Gift by George Shannon
The Hand-Me Down Doll by Steven Kroll
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Joffe Numeroff
Week 3- Prayer
The Lord’s Prayer
Read Matt. 6: 5-15
Explain to the children that Jesus taught us the correct way to pray. Read through the Lord's Prayer and help them identify the different parts of a prayer.
- Prayer should come from our hearts, we shouldn't use vain repetitions
- When we pray we begin by addressing our Father in Heaven
- Express gratitude for blessings seen and unseen
- Humbly ask for what you or others want/need
- Close in the name of Jesus Christ
Esther's Powerful Prayer
Read Esther 4-7 ( you may just want to read pieces of the story and summarize the rest, as it is long)
Esther had a big choice to make and she was afraid that if she made the King angry she would be killed. Esther was afraid but she had faith that God could help her. Before she made any decisions she asked all her friends and the rest of the Jewish people to pray and fast with her that she would be safe. When Esther approached the King he was kind and loving and when he heard her concerns he wanted to save her people. She knew that the Lord had heard her prayers. Just like Esther we can pray to God when we have big choices to make, and we can ask others to pray with us too.
Questions to Talk About:
Why do you think Esther asked everyone else to pray with her?
Have you ever had a time when you had a problem you couldn't fix?
Did you pray?
How do you know that God hears your prayers?
Every knee shall bow (adapted from Kids of Integrity)
Show the kids pictures of real (current and historical) Kings, Queens, Princes and Princesses. If you can find story books about them even better. Talk about how people show respect to these rulers by kneeling before them.
Have one of the children dress up like a king or a queen and sit on a "throne." Have the other children pretend to be subjects and approach the king or the queen. When they approach have them kneel and bow their heads when they ask them for a favor or a gift. Let each child have a turn being the king or the queen. You can also have the kids see what happens when the subjects approach and don't treat the king or queen humbly. Is the king or queen as willing to listen to them and give hem what they ask for when they don't ask humbly?
Explain that God and Christ are more powerful than any of these rulers and that we kneel to show our respect. Remind them that when we pray to God we bow our heads and kneel to show our respect and love for them.
Books to Read
Old Turtle by Douglas Wood
Boris is Missing!: And Other Really Good Reasons to Pray by Sandy Silverthorne
Emma and Mommy Talk to God by Marianne Williamson
Brother Sun, Sister Moon by Katherine Paterson
Week 4- Repentance
Naaman and the Little Maid
Read 2 Kings 5:1-9
Teach children that Naaman was a rich and powerful man and that the little maid was a poor and powerless servant. She showed courage in approaching Naaman's wife and bearing testimony that she knew the prophet Elisha could help him. Sometimes when we have great trials (like the leprosy that Naaman had) it makes us more humble, and Naaman showed humility by being willing to listen to her and follow her advice. Even so, when Naaman heard Elisha's advice his pride took over and he didn't want to follow the prophet. Luckily Naaman repented of his pride and obeyed and was cured of his leprosy.
Questions to Talk About:
What do you think made the Little Maid bear her testimony about Elisha?
Why do you think Naaman didn't want to do what Elisha asked him to do?
What happened when Naaman did obey the prophet?
Have you ever had times when you didn't want to do something you were told? Why not?
How do you make things better when you make mistakes?
Practice Repentance (From Kids of Integrity)
To complete this science experiment, you will need these supplies:
- a white cotton cloth
- berries (fresh or frozen blueberries, blackberries or raspberries)
- lemon juice
- measuring cups
- a cookie sheet
- a spoon
Prior to beginning the experiment, create a stain on the cotton cloth using the berry juice. Invite your children to try to wash the stain out using water. (Bath time is an ideal time for this activity!) Point out that the berry stain is like sin; no matter how hard we try, we cannot get rid of sin on our own.
Next, place the stained cloth on a cookie sheet. Have your children pour lemon juice on the stained area, one teaspoon at a time. As you do so, explain that the lemon juice represents God’s power. Read 1 John 1:9 and rinse the fabric with water. Explain that our job is to confess our sins and that God is the one who purifies us (or washes our sins away). You may need to pour hot water through the fabric if it is a tough stain.
Questions for discussion
Could you wash the stain out using your own strength?
How do we get the dirt off the outside of our bodies?
Can we wash our insides?
What did get rid of the stain?
Who does the lemon juice represent?
What do we need to do to get rid of our sin?
What is the difference between a proud person and a humble person?
Rotten fruit and good fruit (adapted from Kids of Integrity)
Get a large piece of paper and help the children draw two trees on it. One tree will represent pride and the other will represent humility. At the base of one tree, write “pride.” For pre-readers, it’s helpful to replace the “I” in pride with an illustration of a human eye. Explain that the “I” in “pride” stands for living life as if it’s “all about me!” A proud person thinks and says things like, “I’m the best;” “I know everything;” “I am more important than you.” Remind your children that what we do comes from what we think. The “fruit” in our lives is our actions. Just like a tree grows fruit from the water and food that comes from the tree’s roots, the way we act is rooted or based on what we believe.
Help the children think of examples of proud behaviors. Write them on pieces of construction paper (which you can cut to look like fruit) and paste them onto the pride tree. Here are some examples of behaviors you might help them talk about:
“I‘m more important than you.”
Insisting on being first.
Wanting the best for oneself.
“I deserve to have everything my way.”
Refusing to share with others.
“I never do anything wrong.”
Refusing to say, “I’m sorry” and unwilling to ask forgiveness.
Refusing to admit faults or wrongdoing.
“I’m better than you.”
Overly upset when losing at a game.
“I know everything.”
Refusing to take advice or being unwilling to listen to others.
After you have a good list of behaviors show the kids a fresh banana and explain how it represents the fruit of the pride tree. Get a strait pin and as you read the list of proud behaviors the kids have pasted on the tree poke the banana with the pin. You can make them big pokes, and even wiggle it around inside the banana a bit so that it mushes up inside. Tell the children that you are going to leave the banana out on the table (or wherever) for the next week and tell them to watch what happens to it.
Next (this can be done on another day if you like) have the children work on the humility tree. Have them draw a crown at the base of the tree and tell them that the person who owns this tree believes that Jesus is King. Explain that when we believe that Jesus is King, it changes the way we think and act! Help the children think of humble behaviors and paste them on the humility tree like you did for the pride tree. Here are some ideas of behaviors you may want to talk about with them:
“We are all important to God.”
Willing to let others go first.
“God wants us to share His love with each other.”
Willing to share with others.
Willing to admit and confess sin
“Sometimes I sin or do wrong.”
“I sometimes make mistakes.”
Willing to admit faults.
Willing to say, “I’m sorry” and ask forgiveness.
“No one is perfect. God forgives me and I should forgive others.”
Lets little things slide instead of getting upset with others.
Choosing to live in peace or harmony
“Life is more fun when we choose to get along.”
Politely accepts winning.
Loses without whining.
“I still have a lot to learn.”
Being willing to accept advice and listen to constructive comments.
After you have a good list pasted on the tree bring out another fresh banana. Explain that this banana represents the fruit of the humility tree. Get a wet washcloth and as you read the list of humble behaviors wipe the outside of the banana. Leave it on the table next to the "pride" banana and tell the children to observe what happens to each of the bananas over the next week.
Hopefully, what will happen is that the "pride" banana, the one with the pokes, will start to get brown and ugly faster than the "humility" banana. At the end of the week you can open up the bananas and look at the inside of the fruit and see that the "pride" banana is more rotten than the "humility" one.
Explain to the children that if we don’t have Jesus’ help, our "natural man" will lead us to grow “rotten fruit.” If we want to produce “Jesus fruit,” then we need to ask His Holy Spirit to live in us and help us to live and love others like Jesus did. When we do grow Jesus fruit, God is pleased and others find us much more pleasant to be around.
Let your children know that even if you make proud choices, and have rotten fruit, that you can always change and become better. Tell them that you will watching them for good choices. When you notice them making good, humble choices instruct that child to pick one piece of rotten fruit off the tree and put a fresh fruit on the other tree instead. The goal is to get all the rotten fruit picked off and replaced with fresh fruit. Remind them that Christ wants all of us to be good, fresh beautiful trees and that each of us can through His love and power.
Books to Read
Somebody’s New Pajamas by Isaac Jackson
Millions of Cats by Wanda Gag
Peppe the Lamplighter by Elisa Bartone
The Gingerbread Man by Jim Aylesworth
The Rough-Face Girl by Rafe Martin
Put on a program for parents, grandparents, neighbors, friends, or stuffed animals and review what they have learned. Include the song and scripture they have learned as well as some of the stories they have learned over the month. Instead of doing a lesson the day (or two) before the program we spend it getting ready for the program. It doesn't have to be anything big, just a chance for them to teach what they have learned... because when you teach something you learn it the best.
If you have any other good ideas for scripture stories, activities or books that go with honesty please leave a comment. I plan on using this same lesson plan again with my children next year and it would be great to have some new ideas!